I have met a lot of white men who say they would love to date a black woman, but they are afraid to approach us, Guys,, just info ... we do not bite. so grow a pair if you are interested in dating a black female, walk right up to her and ask her out, you will be surprised.. she might say yes.. you will never know if you don't ask.
I think it is just a kind of stereotype, or a perception that you see a person of a different race and assume (I think especially black women )that your not interested in white men. For me I have dated and been married to a black woman, that dating sites such as this are more ideal since it allows to look for someone with the same wants, rather than the randomness of maybe meeting someone who is open to dating outside their race.
i also live in a less diverse area that doesn't help along with being older , so no one wants to be the old man in the club .. Just my two cents